From November, 2016

A tough few days – by Simone 

My darling Belsie and Thomas It’s been a tough few days, really hard. It goes like that. You are going along “fine” and then suddenly the wave comes, sweeping your feet out from under you. It can often be so very unexpected and not really triggered by anything particular. Just a general sadness and realization of what you have lost, what you so yearn for. Belsie, I have been thinking so very very much about you lately. As more time passes since your death, it’s more and more difficult to imagine what you would have looked like. I see little…

Being real and authentic – by Simone

Being real and authentic. Its something I have been thinking about a lot lately. And its something I have done a lot of work on in the last 8 months.   In our current world, where there is so much pressure on the pursuit of perfection, where everything is often so public, made available on social media forums and to all and sundry, one can often feel pressurised to only show the good things, to show life as near to perfect as it can be. To bury the bad things, the things which make life somewhat less than perfect, the realities…

Bits of our story might be in a book! – by Simone

I had a really cool experience yesterday morning – I got to spend an hour speaking about my darling children, significant events in my life and how they have shaped me.   2 girls from Switzerland, Sandra and Sandra, are putting together a book called “People – Like You and Me”. The goal of the book is to capture a person in photography and then to share their story. Their goal is to capture 80 people and their stories. They are speaking to people about a special turning point in their lives, and how this has defined/changed who they are. Each interview…

A day filled with my 2 babies – by Simone

My darling Belsie and Thomas   Today has been a day filled with you, my 2 babies – amazing and hard all at the same time.   I started off this morning as I do most days spending some quiet time in your garden, just thinking and feeling closer to you. Murray informed me once again this morning that Sissie was happy because her garden was beautiful.   I then had an experience with 2 girls who wanted to learn more about you – my 2 precious angels, my children in heaven. I will write more about this at a…